Adoption

Epigenetics and Attachment

Posted by on February 3, 2011 at 4:38 pm

My children like to read a magazine called Muse. Honestly, I love this magazine too–although I don’t always agree with their perspective. There are fascinating stories of scientific discoveries and interesting tidbits about history. It is the type of publication you sit down to read and an hour later you look up with a start, [...]

Kids Hear The Darndest Things

Posted by on January 11, 2011 at 8:34 pm

Today I was playing a duet with my ten year old son at his piano lesson. My part was unusually high but not loud. Both he and his sister covered their ears at one point because the pitch of the sound was shrill enough to bother their ears! My ears were not bothered at all! [...]

All I Really Want for Christmas

Posted by on January 11, 2011 at 12:51 am

So I’m driving around with my middle son (who is adopted from foster care) and he is listening to the Steven Curtis Chapman song–”All I Really Want For Christmas” which is about an orphan who wants a family from Santa. He stops the song and looks at me and says “Are there really kids out [...]

Free Holiday E-book–2 Days Only!

Posted by on December 14, 2010 at 12:32 pm

Holidays with adopted kids or kids who struggle with ADHD, ODD and other disorders can be SUPER stressful.  That’s why, for two days only, I’m GIVING away my Stress Free Holiday E-book.  Get strategies to help your kids this Christmas season and make things go much more smoothly. Put your name and email address in [...]

Bedtime Strategies That Really Work For Foster Parents

Posted by on December 3, 2010 at 8:21 am

Bedtime can be a truly traumatic time for foster kids.  When our children first moved in sometimes it took three hours to get them to fall asleep.  They were older and had been through a lot.  Some strategies we employed then were eventually effective and included the following: 1. No television after 5pm in the [...]

Solving the Rainy Day (And Holiday) Blues

Posted by on November 30, 2010 at 10:37 pm

The cold and rainy weather is upon us and my poor Gabriel is an emotional wreck.  This time of year always throws him for a loop–though it gets less severe each year.  Tonight at bedtime he said he didn’t feel “right” lately.  Happy he could identify that feeling, I asked him why he felt weird [...]

Lessons From Little House

Posted by on November 26, 2010 at 12:23 am

Yesterday was Thanksgiving. We sat down with the kids and watched an old Little House on the Prairie Holiday Special. In it, Ma described her first Christmas as a 10 year old girl having lost her father and living with a new step father. Her step father was actually a kind man but young Caroline [...]

Adopted Kids Have Meltdowns–Parents Do Detective Work

Posted by on November 3, 2010 at 5:54 pm

“I want it!” The screaming from down the hall became more intense as I made may way from the opposite end of the house.  “What is going on?” I asked.  Surveying the scene I noticed the tell tale signs of a meltdown as I observed my nine year old son sprawled out on the floor, [...]

Winter Activities For Special Needs Kids

Posted by on November 1, 2010 at 5:36 pm

Winter is coming.  The leaves are changing, there is a chill in the air, and the frost is on the pumpkin.  Winter can be a great time of rest and renewal if you let it be. It can also be very tempting to turn on the television a lot now that the kids are indoors [...]

Learning Together-Strategies That Work With Special Needs Kids Part 1

Posted by on October 25, 2010 at 3:35 pm

When children are homeschooled it is easy to combine subjects like History, Science, and Geography and teach lots of ages at once.  This can be intimidating for families who have never attempted it before.  It can be freeing for the family bogged down with 4 children all doing varying levels of 7 subjects using textbooks [...]